Hi,
It is said that lie requires maintenance and truth doesn't. But when we say this are we all ready to hear the truth, to hear an honest opinion at all point of time. Many of May not like an acquaintance pointing out out not so great fashion choice. We get annoyed, upset.
How is it then that we speak no lie and at the same moment convey our honest views and opinions? How to hold up a conversation without being either offensive or lamely flattery?
The word is EUPHEMISM. One may not appreciate someone commenting that the dress you wore today is making you look fat and bulky ponch is quite obviously visible in it. Isn't that too harsh. Yes indeed. Now when you hear a comment that the dress you wore is unable to present your body contours well, rather you can opt for something of another type which will elaborate the looks of a healthy body type.
Being on the heltheir plumpier side may not necessarily be a person's choice or fault. It's just how anyone is. You see different body types. So when you use the subtle way of speech, you give the person another option to choose from, than feel insecure. Nobody's perfect afterall......
IT'S HOW YOU CHOOSE TO SAY
It is said that lie requires maintenance and truth doesn't. But when we say this are we all ready to hear the truth, to hear an honest opinion at all point of time. Many of May not like an acquaintance pointing out out not so great fashion choice. We get annoyed, upset.
How is it then that we speak no lie and at the same moment convey our honest views and opinions? How to hold up a conversation without being either offensive or lamely flattery?
The word is EUPHEMISM. One may not appreciate someone commenting that the dress you wore today is making you look fat and bulky ponch is quite obviously visible in it. Isn't that too harsh. Yes indeed. Now when you hear a comment that the dress you wore is unable to present your body contours well, rather you can opt for something of another type which will elaborate the looks of a healthy body type.
Being on the heltheir plumpier side may not necessarily be a person's choice or fault. It's just how anyone is. You see different body types. So when you use the subtle way of speech, you give the person another option to choose from, than feel insecure. Nobody's perfect afterall......
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